Connecting with your partner

Many of us have been there. The more we talk with our partner, the further we feel we are getting. Separation seems to be looming. However, it might only be a language problem. Could it be that simple?

Out of my experience working with couples the answer is: "mostly yes".

During this free workshop of 1 1/2 hour, limited to 20 participants (there are ongoing dates. I will put you on the list for the next available one) to make it a safe space for anyone, you will learn:

• How to create connecting communication, by reading behind the words being said by your partner(s). Learn to see the real message being given you, beyond the words that the person is using. Even if you just practice this part of the workshop; this is THE game changer

• How to transform a painful situation with your partner(s) into an opportunity to come closer, rather than creating distance

• How to use something he/she does or says that you are having difficulties with, to deepen the connection between you, instead of letting it drive you apart

• "Translate to reality". You will learn that often what our partner(s) say and what we hear are two different things. On many occasions, this creates distance. Learn a fool-proof way to avoid this problem.

• "The judgment and criticism trap". Oh, so you don't judge and criticize your partner -or yourself-? well, join me and we will see...:-)Why is this important? Try to think of a situation in which a person was saying to you: "you are so arrogant/ignorant/slow/lazy, etc...". When faced with such a judgment, how did you react? Probably by recoiling, mentally/psychologically speaking.Most of us get defensive. That's also what we do in our intimate relationships, creating distance between us and our partner(s). 

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What happens as soon as you register:

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• I will send you a PDF booklet with some preparatory work. Please read it because coming to the workshop with some background work done means you can get much more out of the actual meeting time. In this booklet you will also find some details on how to do more work with me after the workshop, if you find that this work speaks to you.

• I will personally be in touch with you to ask you what subject you would like to talk about. For example, a situation in which he/she said something that stayed with you, mentally/psychologically speaking, and that you find difficult to accept and deal with. It can be something that happened years ago and that is still with you and that is stopping you from having a happy and harmonious relationship now.

I will share the answer during the workshop, in a completely anonymous way, simply saying that "this is one of the issues raised", so that everyone will benefit from our get together as much as possible.

 

So, are you ready to join me to create a happy and harmonious relationship? Click here and register for this free interactive workshop